Long overdue....

But here! Finally!

I don't know what excites me more.... the fact that I finally have time to post... or the fact that I finally thought of something to post about.

Work, school, kids, and life in general has kept me insanely busy... way too busy. We're also trying to get Daddy's business up off the ground. He makes amazing collars, jewelry, and carves fantastic wood items.

Anyways....

i've been home sick the last few days and ive been reading through others' blogs and fetlife. with our life being so crazy and some semi-serious health issues going on our life has been rather tame...lol. so... the following are my thoughts that reading and browsing has sparked....

Your kink is not my kink....

I am one who celebrates diversity. I love the fact that on the Spanking Blogger's Network (see links on my blogroll) there are so many different types of blog. Some are M/f, some are F/m... some are strictly domestic discipline and others more erotic.... some are from D/s or M/s backgrounds and others refuse to be labeled.... and yet we all love what the simple act of spanking provides for us. I find myself enjoying and learning from each and every one of them.


You're not who you presented yourself to be....


Its been happening quite a bit on fetlife lately that prolific posters are being outed for not being who they stated or presented themselves to be. Maybe using pictures off of modeling websites, presenting themselves as a long term live together couple when they've actually never met, etc.... the picture thing... yeah thats just wrong without permission from the model or photographer... but who does it really hurt if a couple wants to live in their fantasy for awhile.

The fact of the matter is... not one of us shares everything. There are definitely things about me and my life I will never share on this blog. I have a few profiles online where my location is wrong, on purpose. Does that make my words any less valuable? Anyways, moving on...


Perfection....

No relationship is going to be without its problems. Ever. Sometimes one person just can't provide all of your needs. Communicate... seriously.



Social Anxiety....


I have this. Seriously. Which is why I have no desire to ever attend a public function, play party, or public gathering. It takes everything I've got to go to work.... and even more simply to do the normal things a parent has to. I purposely keep most of my friends at a phone/internet level. Awful, huh....lol.


Spanking....

Before we had 4 children spanking happened much much more frequently. Even when we just had two children, it was still fairly regular. Ever since 3 and 4 showed up its been pretty much non-existant. We used to use spanking as an energy/mood regulator. I miss that, but its been so long that it honestly makes me nervous to think about.


And that ends today's randomness... with any luck there will be better randomness tomorrow =)